Few days ago, I had a WhatsApp chat with a friend. It started with the usual conversation, “Hello” followed by asking our whereabouts. To my text, “How are you?” he replied “Fine, as always.”. Well the reply was normal. But as I was already not so well, it clicked me and I asked my heart, if someone can be always fine. I told him, “How can someone be always fine? It’s impossible. You are hiding something.”
And then he replied me by sending the following image.
And this is how, I realized, we are stuck deeply by the varying emotions such as heart breaks, fears and insecurities which dwell in our hearts and primarily affects the state of mind. There are times we lie to ourselves that we are fine, though we are dejected. In such busy schedule, we barely have time to analyse our thoughts and ideas; what we actually feel and thus we ignore our despondency.
At times, we perform things in which we aren’t even interested to maintain a rigid routine and follow the quotidian pattern. We neglect our choices. But what’s the idea behind living such life and being a nudnik? Life is to embrace activities we love, that enhance us in every aspect of personality growth and happiness of soul. Life is to live fully to the apex.
I don’t think, being not fine is good. We should educe some time to think upon ourselves for the self-introspection and live accordingly. Yes, at times, circumstances become so complicated. Life is a roller-coaster ride with twists and turns. But that’s also one of the different colors of life. Live it, take experiences, learn from them and enjoy thoroughly. And of course, try to be fine. Spread positive vibes. ☺❤