Reading the title of my blog, you must be assuming this article to be something related to monsters or demons; those who scare us in nightmares. But here I’m talking about real monsters of our lives not those abstract ones. Those who enter our lives to create problems for us. Those people who can reach any extent to turn our lives from pandemonium to heaven.I’d like to share something that I have experienced in my life so far and learnt things for the betterment of my life and be wiser onwards.
There are people who will enter your life for their own interests and entertainments and will love to see your burn in the fire they aglow. And you will be turned into paralyzed smoke. Life will present you such wicked experiences you can never imagine. Sometimes, it does happen. Life is not what you want. Life is what “life” wants.
Unfortunately, sometimes these are the people who once claimed to be your friends, best friends or lover. And we really need to beware of such satans. We need to hold control on ourselves and be cold-hearted too if required. Life is a journey of experiences. And we don’t come to know the ill-effects of any happenstance until we experience it wholly. Experience teaches a lot. In the story of leading life morally and peacefully, I’d consider experience to be the most appropriate teacher.
But committing a mistake even after experiencing it again is being the greatest fool. Life isn’t a game. If you don’t take it seriously, it starts playing with you. If you don’t start cataloging people in your lives, people who are not worthy will keep creating chaos in your life and harming you. At last, it’s you only who can stop yourself from falling in the pernicious trap. Otherwise, you’ll burn into flames. And that’s the only point where the keystone lies. Recognizing people. It is not as easy as it usually seems. We humans are fool. And sometimes, when we are not, we become the slaves of our hearts. Our hearts enforces us to act as a fool. That’s pathetic. I being, my heart’s slave, have disappointed myself by trusting on wrong people. At times, I have been really so upset at myself due to this foolishness. It really gets bad. Our life is precious and it shouldn’t be wasted on false people. It might result into a costly effect. The worse thing, it gets difficult to come out of it later.
Life is a twisted tale. It never goes straight. It will make you crave for the people who don’t care about you. In fact, those who never cared. You’ll shout. You’ll cry for them. You’ll depress yourself more and more. And the most saddening part, you’ll wait for them. God has bestowed you with everything in your life, yet you desire for that someone. At times, no matter how judicious we are, we fall in this ruinous trap. And the moment, we are out of the worsened circle and finally move on, we start forgetting them; life will bring them on our feet and make us weak again.
The only solution is not to give someone another chance who is not trust-worthy. Forgive, forget and move on. But, never another chance. Delete them from your life. Don’t regret anything what happened in the past. Because eventually, it’s the experiences and mistakes that make you stronger. That gives you immense power to be doughty even if you strike a hard rock. Our mistakes help us find things and persons that are right for us. We all make mistakes at some point of our lives but it helps us ameliorate our days and future. Every single thing that has happened in our life, every fucking monster that entered our heart is preparing us for a better moment that is yet to come. And the wisdom lies in forgiving people. Vent out all your grudges and find peace within yourself. Raise your standards and enjoy. Thank God every morning who has given you this beautiful life to live when you wake up. Explore this world and meet beautiful people. Of course, there are more angels than demons on this earth.
Stay Happy and Keep Smiling! 🙂