To all the broken hearts out there, don’t let your tears weaken you. Crying is a healing process, it isn’t the sign of cowardice. Feel the pain and let it out in the form of tears. You may cry for hours or days, but then a day will come, you will finally wake up and feel sunshine rejuvenating you. You will feel you are finally relieved from all those piercing moments because time is the only healer. There is no such medicine which can mollify you from heartbreaks, depression phases or career turmoils. So have faith in time. Give it the chance to revive you.
Cry but don’t stay crying. Cry but accept you are going to be okay. Crying won’t help much but the acceptance will. Positivity always helps. Remember you aren’t the only person in the world going through the bad phase. Everybody suffers more or less. Life is easy for none but it all depends on our perspectives if we consider it easy or difficult. Would you like reading a story or watching a movie that moves with a non twisted pace, every move beautiful and straight? No, we usually find it boring or devoid of creativity. Then how can we expect our lives to be different or perfect? Obviously problems don’t make our lives beautiful or interesting but then we can’t deny the fact our lives are also some stories going in action forming a part of this vast universe. There has to be those hard phases and quagmire and you need to be valiant enough to conquer it.
I know, emotional disturbances are harder than physical disturbances. But then, think about the person who is leading his life without a pair of eyes or is deaf or dumb. The one who is handicapped. Even, he is leading his life. Do you think, your heart break/losing a game is much more difficult to suffer than his impaired health? Well, you could agree that you are in worse phase. But no. It is not that easy. I have no intention of comparing things, because as everything has its own identity, similarly every pain has its own suffering. Point is, you can’t deny the fact that there are people here and there in worse circumstances than yours. You have to accept this bitter reality of the world. Life provides you lemons too to make a lemonade. It’s all a matter of time. Don’t exasperate your pains lamenting over them thinking that you are the one or questioning almighty why you? Because everybody has got his own set of joys and sufferings. Happiness or sorrow, nothing lasts forever.
Love yourself, Live for yourself. Be yourself. And even if you cry, accept and move on and believe in time.
And remember a great writer and obviously one of my favorites once said,
“There is a way to be good again.”
(The Kite Runner)