Rejection

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We humans are lovers of acceptance. We want to be accepted by everyone in everything. But life never goes straight. Unfortunately, rejection comes and we are devastated emotionally. We are doomed.

We can’t deny the fact that rejection hurts. Whatever the reason be. Whether it is due to getting fired from the Job or being dumped by your boyfriend or girlfriend, it feels like rejected by the world.

Sometimes, rejection is minor. But in some cases, it leads to a major damage. One of the main reason behind the emotional pain about rejection is Society peers.
A student comitted suicide because he failed in his 12th grade. It’s natural that he must have felt the pangs of rejection. But what caused him to take the way to death. He was not only rejected by exams but by himself in his heart. He was rejected by his parents following the social connections he had. And consequently, rejection became poison.

When one doesn’t score well, doesn’t make up to the best college, doesn’t get hired by the best corporate companies. And he gets constantly rejected. It hurts emotionally as well as physically.

I can here narrate my incident. I was a bright student in my school. I always got good grades and appreciated by my teachers. Everyone had great expectations from me. And what happened when I got my 12th standard result? I got a merely 80’s percentage. I got rejected by my parents, my teachers though it wasn’t that bad. Reason being I didn’t make it to 90, 95 tag. Thus, I felt rejected by myself too. Because I failed in fulfiling the criteria set by my well-wishers. I cried. I got an inferiority complex. I felt I couldn’t do anything. Today, I am in my final year of graduation and I don’t think that past result even matter. How painful a rejection be, it is always temporary.

Rejections are somehow important. It teaches us to make better decisions. If you are rejected by something or someone, it automatically pushes you to do better. When someone criticize you, you feel you arent’t worthy. You feel like a trash. But it doesn’t go like that. You are in fact redirerected to someone or something better and right ones you need. On the other hand, rejection teaches you how to reject.

God always has plans for you. Better ones. Have faith in him. One person who rejected you, job you got fired from, one school/college result doesn’t determine your potential and future. If you are rejected, learn from it. Make efforts wiser this time.

One of the thing we need to understand is we are being rejected by few people in our lives not by other seven billion people on earth. There are still a fraction of people who value us. Besides that, rejection comes to everyone. Rejection can’t be rejected. You have to bear it and recover. It is one of the parts of our lives.

Other thing, some things we assume as rejections are so lame. People not getting 100+ likes on their Facebook, Instagram pictures feel rejected. A blogger not getting likes on his blog feel he doesn’t write well. But it doesn’t relate to the context of reality. These are the virtual happinesses. The questions is Why? Why are you being bothered by a like from someone whom you barely know.

Rejection is never easy. But you don’t have to follow the standards set by the society. You don’t need to be approved or appreciated by everyone in this world. Think Wisely. Rejection is not always about you, sometimes it is the parts of circumstances and many other factors. Overcome rejection and move on.

Lovely Sundays

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Hello everyone!
Hope you all are fine! 🙂

How awesome it feels when you don’t need to set alarm for the next morning. No Botheration about early wake up! No anxiety for going to school/college/workoffices. I mean, we suffer through the whole week and eagerly wait for the lovely Sunday.
I personally think, Sunday should come with a pause button. 😉
But the only sad part is, I organise my to-do list for sunday yet end up wasting the entire day. So bad of me!

The person especially like me. I am a crazy sleeper anyway. I love to sleep. I sleep and enjoy in my dreamland. But there comes an interruption, Writing. At this moment, my eyes are tired and want a tight sleep. On the other hand, I want to write. As much as I can. About anything or everything.

But my eyes are not allowing me. Have to sleep. Goodnight fellas. Have a happy sleep. Enjoy the lovely Sunday.
Stay in touch. 🙂

The Night.

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The beauteous dark sky,
This stillness,
And the passel of thoughts to explore.

This is the night,
Sadness landing over the head.
The strange sounds hovering around,
Amalgam of joys and sorrows drown.

This is the night,
Quilt of stars still awake.
Here comes a wind breeze,
Pretending to accompany my lonesomeness.

Oh night; tell me,
where are the black powers?
I wish for the bound spell,
And unveil the hidden mysteries.

This is the night,
My mind still ruminating around.
I wish I could sleep,
It’s been so long.

This is the night,
My eyes can’t shut.
I can’t bear more nightmare,
Waiting for the sun to wake up.

Little Happiness

Hello friends! My blog mates 🙂
I started this blog on 22 Feb. It has been just 17 days since I have started this blog. And I am totally in love with this platform “WordPress”. 🙂

To be honest, I never knew I could write. No, am not perfect in it. But I like it when whatever I feel and put it into words. That single notification, regarding any likes/comments/follow simply makes my day.

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I got insanely happy! 😉
And this,

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This made me feel like, I am a little celebrity! Lol 😀

And then,

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I can’t explain. 😉

Well, I am acting kiddish. But I am really feeling happy about this. Having 100 followers, pretty no. Of likes and comments. The overwhelming responses you all give makes me happy. 🙂
Sometimes the little happinesses mean so much to me. Stupid me!
I hope to write better and stay in touch with you all. I’ll like to learn as much as I can from all my fellow bloggers.
Many miles to go and milestones to achieve.
In love with this Blogosphere. ❤

Thanks for reading.

When bae talks.

When bae talks to me,
My lips can’t cease to smile.
The silly jokes he crack,
His idiosyncrasies upon which I rely.

When bae talks to me,
I find everything perfect.
The weird gestures he make,
Lets me enjoy the night.
The kisses bae showers,
chasing me to go high.

When bae talks to me,
I become palpable.
When bae adores,
My life switches to heaven.

When bae talks to me,
I roll my eyes over him.
That sudden wink he does,
Thus, driving me to symphony.

When bae talks to me,
the dark turns sunshine.
The kinky gestures he make,
Fulfil my heart with desire.

When bae talks to me,
I can’t feel any sweeter.
The warm hug he gives,
I can’t decipher.

I know I may sound fanatic,
But I admire his parapraxis.
When bae talks to me,
I love that amative feel.