This post is a repost. I would like my words to reach anyone and help who has lost hopes and is in despair. //
To all the broken hearts out there, don’t let your tears weaken you. Crying is a healing process, it isn’t the sign of cowardice. Feel the pain and let it out in the form of tears. You may cry for hours or days, but then a day will come, you will finally wake up and feel sunshine rejuvenating you. You will feel you are finally relieved from all those piercing moments because time is the only healer. There is no such medicine which can mollify you from heartbreaks, depression phases or career turmoils. So have faith in time. Give it the chance to revive you.
Cry but don’t stay crying. Cry but accept you are going to be okay. Crying won’t help much but the acceptance will. Positivity always helps. Remember you aren’t the only person in the world going through the bad phase. Everybody suffers more or less. Life is easy for none but it all depends on our perspectives if we consider it easy or difficult. Would you like reading a story or watching a movie that moves with a non twisted pace, every move beautiful and straight? No, we usually find it boring or devoid of creativity. Then how can we expect our lives to be different or perfect? Obviously problems don’t make our lives beautiful or interesting but then we can’t deny the fact our lives are also some stories going in action forming a part of this vast universe. There has to be those hard phases and quagmire and you need to be valiant enough to conquer it.
I know, emotional disturbances are harder than physical disturbances. But then, think about the person who is leading his life without a pair of eyes or is deaf or dumb. The one who is handicapped. Even, he is leading his life. Do you think, your heart break/losing a game is much more difficult to suffer than his impaired health? Well, you could agree that you are in worse phase. But no. It is not that easy. I have no intention of comparing things, because as everything has its own identity, similarly every pain has its own suffering. Point is, you can’t deny the fact that there are people here and there in worse circumstances than yours. You have to accept this bitter reality of the world. Life provides you lemons too to make a lemonade. It’s all a matter of time. Don’t exasperate your pains lamenting over them thinking that you are the one or questioning almighty why you? Because everybody has got his own set of joys and sufferings. Happiness or sorrow, nothing lasts forever.
Love yourself, Live for yourself. Be yourself. And even if you cry, accept and move on and believe in time.
And remember a great writer and obviously one of my favorites once said,
“There is a way to be good again.”
-Khaled Hosseini
(The Kite Runner)
Love
Shreya ❤️
So true, crying comes after denial and before acceptance so it’s good to cry once and for all but once you are done just move on stronger ❤
Beautifully written
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So well said. Thanks, Anamika. 💚
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This is so heartfelt. Excellent post, Shreya!
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Thank you, Shweta! 💛
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Thanks dear and yes no one they can call a fighter without a struggle
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Yes so true. Thanks for reading.
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Fav line ‘there is a way to be good again’..loved the whole blog..so heart touching♥️♥️ would love if you check out my new post on acceptance:
https://mahimajalan.wordpress.com/2017/10/14/acceptance-is-the-key/?preview=true
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Aww. Thanks a lot. It means a lot to me . 😍
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true that! may be you can read my blogs too..sometimes.. 🙂
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Wow. I’m going to share this.
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Aww. Thank you ❤️
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Such a beautiful post. Cryin tears are something I have struggled with for years, and to this day still I have a hard time just letting myself cry.
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Oh, I understand. I wish for your happiness, strong lady.
Thanks for reading. ❤️
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I think we need to stop seeing crying as weakness, especially in men. Nice post 🙂
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Yeah, and i feel like my eyes is refreshed after I cried😂. Like there are times if I didn’t cry lately I will find reasons to cry, because it somehow makes me feel good😊
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Hehe it happens. I can relate. Thanks for reading.
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Hi there!
You’ve a beautiful blog Shreya! Glad to have met you here.
Great post! 🙂
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Thank you so much 😊
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Beautiful!
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Thank you so much, Shambhavi. 😍
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You’re welcome Shreya!🤗🤗
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Love yourself is a true medication of heart
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I agree.
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Beautifully expressed and yes crying is not sign of cowardice
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Thank you so much. Glad that you read. 😊❤️
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It is true..but crying is impossible for some..but well done on this post..
Shreyans
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I am really sceptical about the fact that crying maybe impossible for some. It just happens very naturally.
Anyway, thanks for reading and appreciating my efforts. ❤️
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you may be right here..
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🙂
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These lines of yours❤❤❤❤❤
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Aww. Thank you. ❤️😊😊😊
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💓💓💓
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😚❤️
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😍💕😙
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Hi, I hope you are having a good day! I have nominated you for the Blue Sky Tag award because I love your work. You can check the post here : https://dirediarist.wordpress.com/2017/07/10/the-blue-sky-tag-award/
Pl. find time to respond to it, I will be honoured.
Thanks 🙂
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Inspiring……………………………
It seems like whole world is with me.
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Aww. Thank you so much. It feels great to inspire someone through words 😊
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Your Grace! 🙂
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So true💛
{There is a way to be good again}👌👌👌
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Yup, one of my favorite quotes by Khaled Hosseini. ❤️❤️
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Beautifully expressed. Yeah! Every dealing with their problems big or small. What matters is our perspective towards it. Loved your post. Keep writing❤
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Yes I so agree. Thank you so much. ❤️😊😊
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I agree that crying is part of the healing process. Thanks for sharing
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It’s my pleasure to share my views with all of you. Thanks for reading 😊
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This is what I do 😂 I just cry and vent it out and then I realize oh stupid me 😂 beautiful
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Haha happens. Thanks Richa for reading. 😊
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Excellent post, Shreya! I absolutely loved how beautifully you have brought the message out. There was a recent message I came across, which said – If everyone sits around a table holding a card that has all their problems and decides to exchange them, they’ll end up wanting their own card back.
These lines were my favourite part of the post – Would you like reading a story or watching a movie that moves with a non twisted pace, every move beautiful and straight? No, we usually find it boring or devoid of creativity. Then how can we expect our lives to be different or perfect?
Keep writing more, dear, very well done!
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Deepika! 😍😍😍😍
I am very very glad to read your feedback here. Mesmerized me. Thank you so much for reading and appreciation. 😍😊
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Keep on the lookout for more comments from me, Shreya, your posts shine very uniquely ❤ Keep writing more! ❤
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Your comments encourage me to write more. 😘❤️
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That really makes me happy, Shreya ❤
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Yes, crying helps to relax oneself… For me I feel good as crying makes things flow away…
Great post!!
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Same here. Thanks for reading. 😊
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Beautiful and so true. Crying and tears are great for the soul. It’s very soul cleansing.
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Thank you, Kaws. I agree. 😊
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You’re welcome!
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Problems don’t make our lives beautiful, but i think that they make it interesting somehow for others, and for our memory as we overcome it.
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I agree.
Thanks for reading. ❤️
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